Coleen Nolan, known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, now serves as Britain’s most straightforward advice columnist, addressing issues related to sex, relationships, and life challenges.
If you seek guidance, you can reach out to Coleen at dearcoleen@mirror.co.uk, or send your letters to Coleen Nolan, The Daily Mirror, One Canada Square, London E14 5AP. Additionally, don’t forget to subscribe to her newsletter every Saturday by signing up at bit.ly/MirrorColeen.
A concerned reader writes to Coleen about the strain on their relationship caused by the demands of parenting their 18-month-old daughter. The lack of intimacy has created discomfort in discussing or engaging in sexual activities. However, a much-needed break is on the horizon as the boyfriend’s parents will babysit, allowing the couple to enjoy a child-free weekend.
Anticipation mixed with nervousness surrounds the upcoming getaway, as the absence of distractions may heighten expectations for rekindling their intimacy. The reader seeks advice on how to reconnect during this long-overdue break, recognizing its significance for their relationship.
Coleen advises the couple to relax, have fun, and avoid overthinking the situation. Encouraging them to let things unfold naturally without pressure or preconceived expectations, Coleen suggests that genuine enjoyment and shared experiences can pave the way for rebuilding intimacy. She emphasizes the importance of laughter, freedom to eat and sleep at leisure, and the potential for deeper conversations in a relaxed setting.
Ultimately, Coleen reassures that the couple should focus on enjoying each other’s company, with the possibility of reigniting their physical relationship coming as a natural progression. She underscores that regardless of the outcome, the weekend getaway serves as a foundation for improving intimacy and revitalizing their connection.
