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A 32-year-old man is grappling with conflicting emotions as his wedding approaches in May. Despite his love for his fiancée of three years, he finds himself drawn to her sister, whom he met a year ago. The sister, who recently returned from living abroad, now resides with her parents, leading to frequent encounters that have sparked feelings of attraction and guilt in the man.
Struggling with the dilemma of whether to proceed with the marriage while harboring thoughts for the sister-in-law, the man seeks advice on how to navigate this complex situation. Coleen advises that pursuing any romantic interest with the sister is off limits, emphasizing the importance of respecting family boundaries. Drawing from her personal experience growing up with sisters, Coleen warns against jeopardizing relationships for fleeting desires.
Encouraging the man to address his doubts and communicate openly with his partner, Coleen suggests considering postponing the wedding to alleviate the pressure and ensure a well-thought decision. She underscores the need to prioritize clarity and honesty in resolving internal conflicts before committing to marriage. Coleen emphasizes the importance of reframing thoughts about the sister-in-law and avoiding romanticizing the situation to prevent potential chaos.
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