On a snowy November day, Lana Cullis and her daughter Kit were dividing tree ornaments, each taking a share to decorate their separate Christmas trees. The act of unpacking these decorations brought forth memories of loss and grief for Lana, who had fostered 23 children over eight years, with some becoming part of their family through adoption.
As they unwrapped the ornaments, Lana was surprised to see how Kit remembered the stories behind each homemade ornament, even those made by children she had never met. One particular ornament, an angel tree topper symbolizing Lana’s marriage, held sentimental value despite its cracked wings, reflecting the struggles in her relationship that led to divorce.
Another ornament, a Santa sleigh and reindeer made by an eight-year-old foster child, stirred mixed emotions in Lana as she recalled the boy’s departure from their home after a court decision. Despite the pain, Kit’s fondness for the ornament and its playful design brought lightness to the moment, reminding Lana of the joy shared with their foster children.
Reflecting on their tradition of inclusivity during the holidays, Lana remembered how they adjusted their Christmas celebrations to accommodate the foster children, ensuring they felt at home and valued. This practice of giving unique ornaments to each child created lasting memories, with some ornaments staying with Lana as reminders of the bonds they shared.
Among the decorations was a reindeer ornament crafted with pompoms and googly eyes, affectionately named “Big Balls” by a former foster son. As Lana shared these stories with Kit, she realized the depth of understanding and resilience her daughter had developed from their past experiences.
Looking ahead to decorating their Christmas trees separately, Lana anticipated a shift in perspective, knowing that Kit’s positivity and appreciation for their shared history would bring a new energy to the holiday season. As they carried on with their traditions, Lana embraced the evolving dynamics of their family and the enduring connections reflected in each ornament’s story.
